Bound by the Bond

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Are you really fine with having no one as your partner?

"Hey, folks! , Hey guys! " 

Very well-known words we all heard in every interval of the break. but still, some don't have nobody to wait for, neither they wait for somebody. When teachers, seniors, and classmates crack 6thcompliments as "Hey you bestos" the agenda of living alone fails. When you got someone to understand your eye expressions, you are really lucky. If you got someone to give excuses together to bunk the work hours, I just can't say how lucky you are to have a partner for real! Paying bills is not a big deal, but sharing pizza or tiffins is a big deal. It feels so good to have their pieces of food. "Sharing is caring" turns very true. Some people don't have groups, they don't have friends to call hey groupie or buddy, or neither to call by. But it doesn't mean that they don't want to be called, they also dream of having a friend, a best friend. But the thing is they can't keep someone for long. Their connection is cut off so soon, that people get vanish from their minds, their depression and anxiety killing them. Sometimes for financial gaps or family problems. 

Few says These friendships are not everlasting. Not true. Not motivating. Distracting. I may haven't seen the world as much as you have, but i see my father talking to his school friends still without a hello, with no due respect to financial status. Its just friendship that talks. I have seen my father going to trips without informing his brothers but haven't seen without prior letting knew his best friend. my father still calls him at odd hours to know if the trouble solved or not. uncle still calls my father for first festive wish. the catch here ? they also have bunked classes, did dirty unhealthy unhygenic bla bla things together. but both are still having the best fathers, sons, brothers and yeah friends too. So the point here is to choose someone as you. whose vision, madness, pattern of life matches yours. Not because of silly materialistic things. There is a saying " Be the one - you want". be the best to you first, know yourself the best. then you can chooe who is good for you or not. 

Having someone is also a dream for so many people, some of us have friends in schools colleges, or offices but we couldn't keep them in the first row of our life. Eventually, they get separated by our busy timeline. We are busy with living hours and money earning. real friends don't leave, I have read somewhere. But unfortunately having someone for a period of time is somehow your family or your life partner. Relatives, friends, and the rest of the people of life are just for funerals. I won't say Keep talking to strangers, but I will surely say talk to some people. Who knows they are may waiting for you to start talking, start sharing. Who knows, You both may become friends forever. "I don't need someone, I am okay with my situations, I am happy alone" Is okay but not fine. Sometimes being an introvert plays as a diversion for expressing feelings. Introverts also want to share kinds of stuff but can't share. They have a fear of judgments, Gossip. What if the other person will judge their thought, what if they will laugh at your opinions? What if your little success won't gonna feel great to them, they will underestimate you. You need to be very fortunate enough to get a friend who understands the real you.

To share happiness, laughter, sorrow, cracking memes, and jokes apart but they also want someone to share their teenage experiences. When puberty starts hitting we all want to gossip more with someone, when someone proposes we all need someone to share the exact feeling we felt at the time he was giving roses chocolates with his knees, when someone is bullying we all need a shoulder to cry on. We need someone to give us the courage to fight, to become ignorant of negativities. Emptiness cracked our souls so severely that we couldn't even want to talk about it. Yeah, We all need a person. Maybe Wearing a disguise of not needing someone is okay but we all need someone to ask us "Are you okay? " And after every screaming cry, we need someone to talk to "you know what happened today !" We all need someone to gossip about what happened last night, last weekend, last journey, last trip. We always can't stick to a diary to live in. We are also humans, we also need someone to talk to.

In a world of money, a moment costs the highest price. It's good if you have some so-called relationships, then they will be present at your funeral, don't worry about the crowd at your funeral. Having a friend in all stages of your life is the best investment you can do; invest your good times on your friend. it will return as a hand in need for sure. Friendship is eternal, this is the only relationship we create in this world. Otherwise, every relationship is planned by the Almighty. Becoming Krishna or Karna may not be possible, but staying aside after knowing the loss as Karna and keep giving the courage to win every battle as Krishna is not easy but possible.